Is this weird? (Gun question)

MeesoThornyMeesoThorny Shipmate Posts: 3
I found out our priest wiles away his time "dry firing" his guns. He does this every evening. Is this, normal, acceptable priest behavior? It seems so strange to me that a priest would spend any length of time fantasizing about killing others every evening. It makes me uncomfortable.

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  • Alan29Alan29 Shipmate
    Where in the world is this happening?
  • BroJamesBroJames Purgatory Host
    It would be very weird in the UK given the strict laws on gun ownership.
  • I found out our priest wiles away his time "dry firing" his guns. He does this every evening. Is this, normal, acceptable priest behavior? It seems so strange to me that a priest would spend any length of time fantasizing about killing others every evening. It makes me uncomfortable.
    Dry firing does not equate to “fantasizing about killing others.” While I agree it may be an odd thing to do every evening, the mere fact that he does it is no reason to assume motivation like that.


  • DoublethinkDoublethink Admin, 8th Day Host
    Does he hunt ?
  • Given the pressures of a priestly life (so I am told), it seems like one way of letting off steam...
  • Okay, I didn't know what dry-firing was, so I looked it up, and apparently it means firing a gun with no ammo in it. And it's recommended for these reasons:
    Dry-firing, simulating firing a gun without live ammunition, is a valuable technique for improving shooting skills. Shooters can enhance their accuracy and proficiency by practicing trigger control, sight alignment, and overall shooting technique.
    (taken from here: https://www.strikeman.io/blogs/news/what-is-dry-firing-is-it-bad

    So the real question would be, why does your priest shoot a gun at all? If it's a sport (like archery) to him, I don't see it as a problem. I myself would love to have the chance to improve my archery, which is abysmal. And there's no need to be fantasizing about anything, even taking out a rabbit. My shooting fantasy (and it would BE a fantasy) would have to do with hitting the target at all, let alone in the inmost circle...
  • I don’t think it needs to involve any kind of sin at all, so I don’t think it would be inappropriate for a priest to do this.
  • (Why is this in Hell?)
  • To UK ears, this is "weird" - but no more (not fundamentally wrong). Assuming that he legally owns these, and wishes to improve his shooting ability (for non-human-lethal purposes) it is within the bounds of reasonableness.

    What clergy do in their spare time - like what anyone does in their spare time - is their business, up to a point.
  • To UK ears, this is "weird" - but no more (not fundamentally wrong). Assuming that he legally owns these, and wishes to improve his shooting ability (for non-human-lethal purposes) it is within the bounds of reasonableness.

    What clergy do in their spare time - like what anyone does in their spare time - is their business, up to a point.

    Depends on whose UK ears. Some of those of us who live and work in the countryside might think it was normal.

    I’ve got a friend who spends inordinate amounts of time swinging his shotgun to point at hanging golf balls - improves muscle memory and aiming instincts and makes him a better shot.

    All fair enough IMO
  • The RogueThe Rogue Shipmate
    From this person in the UK I would call it unusual and not weird. YMMV.
  • MeesoThornyMeesoThorny Shipmate Posts: 3
    So the real question would be, why does your priest shoot a gun at all?

    He does this because he’s a “prepper” and he’s paranoid. He says he used to be a pacifist but now sees himself as a “defender”. He believes our little town is a very dangerous place. He does not keep the guns in a safe.

    I don’t think it is psychologically healthy, balanced behavior.

  • EirenistEirenist Shipmate
    Please explain 'prepper'. I'm a bit worried we may be on the fringe of 'All Americans are crazy' territory. Is your priest in Idaho, by any chance?
  • Bishops FingerBishops Finger Shipmate
    edited June 2024
    I'll hazard a guess that the priest is preparing for whatever apocalypse he foresees overtaking his people...the election of Trump? Or the re-election of Biden? - assuming he's in the USA, but I note that we haven't been told this. Over to you @MeesoThorny - no need to tell us exactly where!

    This, to me, does indeed seem weird and dangerous. From whom does he intend to defend his town and people?

    Without wishing to guess his denomination, I would hope that his superiors are aware of his predilections.
    ChastMastr wrote: »
    (Why is this in Hell?)

    I think the preceding posts answer this very reasonable question...

  • MeesoThornyMeesoThorny Shipmate Posts: 3
    Eirenist wrote: »
    Please explain 'prepper'. I'm a bit worried we may be on the fringe of 'All Americans are crazy' territory. Is your priest in Idaho, by any chance?

    He believes that his life is always in imminent danger and he needs to be ready to defend it. No, not Idaho.
  • Well, it sounds as if he needs urgent help. Does his superior (bishop, or whatever) know?
  • ETA:

    I Am Not A Doctor, and so I'm neither diagnosing, nor recommending.
  • Gramps49Gramps49 Shipmate
    So the real question would be, why does your priest shoot a gun at all?

    He does this because he’s a “prepper” and he’s paranoid. He says he used to be a pacifist but now sees himself as a “defender”. He believes our little town is a very dangerous place. He does not keep the guns in a safe.

    I don’t think it is psychologically healthy, balanced behavior.

    My wife has a friend who was married to a man who had a PhD is Psychology. He taught at the university. Turns out he really loved his guns too. It started out collecting guns. Then every night he would clean them. He actually started making "love" statements to them--her description, She eventually realized her life was in danger and divorced him. He had his guns taken away from him. Later, he committed suicide. She is not able to explain this more because she has developed dementia.

    To the example of the priest. It does sound as if he has mental issues. This should be relayed to the Bishop.
  • Bishops FingerBishops Finger Shipmate
    edited June 2024
    If this occurred in the Church of England, and someone became aware of it, and was afraid of danger to the person concerned, or to other persons, I think it might be considered to be a matter to be brought to the attention of the authorities - Area Dean, Archdeacon, Bishop (in that order), and Diocesan Safeguarding Team (although the latter would no doubt be involved at an earlier stage).

    If I were a member of a congregation whose priest behaved in this way, I'd be failing in my duty to others if I didn't *take it upstairs*, so to speak.

    This is not in any way to criticise @MeesoThorny , who may well be in a difficult position, and I'm NOT fishing for details!
  • So the real question would be, why does your priest shoot a gun at all?

    He does this because he’s a “prepper” and he’s paranoid. He says he used to be a pacifist but now sees himself as a “defender”. He believes our little town is a very dangerous place. He does not keep the guns in a safe.

    I don’t think it is psychologically healthy, balanced behavior.

    Oh dear Jesus no. Regardless of the guns, I think the bishop has got to know about this ASAP.
  • Eirenist wrote: »
    Please explain 'prepper'. I'm a bit worried we may be on the fringe of 'All Americans are crazy' territory. Is your priest in Idaho, by any chance?

    He believes that his life is always in imminent danger and he needs to be ready to defend it. No, not Idaho.

    Definitely definitely contact the bishop please. And I would honestly find a new church. There’s got to be another one nearby that does not have a priest like this.

    The new incoming priest of the church that I used to go to… I looked up his profile on Facebook and found that a couple of his likes included Franklin Graham in the NRA. I immediately found a new church that I’ve been very happy with for the last few years. This is scarier than that, to me.
  • I'm inclined to agree - find another church as soon as possible, but refer the priest in question to their superior first...this may be a tragedy waiting to happen...
  • PigletPiglet All Saints Host, Circus Host
    ... He does not keep the guns in a safe ...

    Why ever not?!? 😳


  • EnochEnoch Shipmate
    I'm inclined to agree - find another church as soon as possible, but refer the priest in question to their superior first...this may be a tragedy waiting to happen...
    I agree. I appreciate that I live in a different country with a different culture, a different approach to firearms and quite possibly different expectations as to what is normally expected of the clergy. All the same, I could have understood this if his hobby was shooting game, but as soon as there was mention of believing he lives in a dangerous place and that his life is in danger, then unless that is objectively true, that sounds like an indicator that someone is on the edge of some sort of nervous collapse, and urgently needs sensitive medical care.

    Has he got a wife and family? Are they potentially in danger? Or is he in a denomination that requires celibacy of its priests?

  • Guns seem an odd hobby for a priest. In the Orthodox Church, a priest who kills a person is stripped of his priesthood. For this reason many priests do not drive, but depend on others to drive them around, just in case they accidentally kill someone in a collision or car-pedestrian accident.
  • CaissaCaissa Shipmate
    The priests rationale for owning guns sounds concerning although the ownership of them does not concern me from a Canadian pov. Although we are not required to keep guns in a safe, we do have regulations about storing them in a safe manner.
  • Alan29 wrote: »
    Where in the world is this happening?

    I don't think this question has actually been answered yet, though the exact location isn't necessary - just the country...
  • Gramps49Gramps49 Shipmate
    edited June 2024
    While, technically, there is no restriction on a minister owning firearms in my denomination--I had some when I was in the active ministry-used them for hunting--what bothers me is the decomposition this priest seems to show. He says he has gone from being a pacifist to a person who thinks the country is going to H411. I am wondering if this can be seen in other aspects of his ministry, like going from being open and friendly to more and more reclusive.

    BTW, I was taught never to dry fire a firearm because it wears out the pin mechanism. But that could be an error on my dad's part.

    @mousethief We have an Orthodox priest who comes down from Spokane for Divine Liturgy here. I wonder if he drives or not. I do know of one other priest who did drive, but he was in a remote area.
  • Orthodox priests drive cars over here. This is the first I've heard of any not doing so for conscientious reasons.
  • Many years ago as a student I went to a rifle range on a familiarisation visit with the Royal Navy at Rosyth. Handling a precision mechanism and controlling its power in reaching a target was immensely satisfying. As one who doesn't play any sports due to an inability to throw, see or catch a ball, this was a wonderful experience, and I did well at it. I have never fired a gun since then. I wish I could have done more of it, but owning a gun has always been out of the question. I cannot imagine shooting to kill any living thing. Our South African minister rhapsodises over the thrill of hunting, which was part of his culture. Perhaps it is about culture: some shoot targets for satisfaction, some shoot to eat and some shoot to kill. Perhaps the dividing lines are not always clear to all people.
  • I hope things have been resolved in some way, @MeesoThorny ❤️
  • I'm not sure it is that weird, tbh. Is it much different to shooting zombies in on a Nintendo game or playing paintball?

    I accept that this probably wouldn't be OK in the UK, where we tend to be strict about gun ownership. But if one lived in a place where there was more acceptance of guns, shooting and hunting then it's tough to see this as a particular problem.

    When I lived in Norway for a short time many years ago, there seemed to be a lot of guns. I can imagine people on farmsteds practicing finding targets with unloaded guns, particularly if ammunition is expensive.

    It might be good if they directed their attentions to a proper gun range and/or assured everyone that there was no ammunition at home. But the whole narrative of "preppers" and whatnot sounds like it could be a slur or rumour to me.
  • KoF wrote: »
    I'm not sure it is that weird, tbh. Is it much different to shooting zombies in on a Nintendo game or playing paintball?

    I accept that this probably wouldn't be OK in the UK, where we tend to be strict about gun ownership. But if one lived in a place where there was more acceptance of guns, shooting and hunting then it's tough to see this as a particular problem.

    When I lived in Norway for a short time many years ago, there seemed to be a lot of guns. I can imagine people on farmsteds practicing finding targets with unloaded guns, particularly if ammunition is expensive.

    It might be good if they directed their attentions to a proper gun range and/or assured everyone that there was no ammunition at home. But the whole narrative of "preppers" and whatnot sounds like it could be a slur or rumour to me.

    “Preppers” are a thing here in the US, and the term is not considered a slur; what we have to go on is what MeesoThorny has specifically said that the priest himself has said:
    He says he used to be a pacifist but now sees himself as a “defender”. He believes our little town is a very dangerous place.

    This isn’t just a hobby.
  • Yes, I'm aware of what the word means. I'm not prepared to simply accept that the picture painted on the internet by an anonymous person about a third person is necessarily accurate.

    I'm not suggesting anything is happening deliberately, I don't know. My own mother has a reputation for misinterpreting information and adding 2 and 2 and making 60.
  • Re the term “prepper,” it’s used by people into that, even with (from a quick Google search) “the best prepper website!” and “Prepper Gun Shop” and so on. (Oh dear, now I’m thinking of the jingle for that old Dr. Pepper soda commercial, “I’m a prepper, he’s a prepper, she’s a prepper, wouldn’t you like to be a prepper too?” 🎶)

    https://youtu.be/Ut04HnBssHI?si=DR8vkVA86lVPfNAE

    (Yes, this is the guy from An American Werewolf in London.)
  • KoF wrote: »
    Yes, I'm aware of what the word means. I'm not prepared to simply accept that the picture painted on the internet by an anonymous person about a third person is necessarily accurate.

    I'm not suggesting anything is happening deliberately, I don't know. My own mother has a reputation for misinterpreting information and adding 2 and 2 and making 60.

    All we have to go on is what the poster said.
  • Well also we have critical faculties and an ability to apply life experiences to weigh what other people say. So no, that isn't all we have to go on.
  • ChastMastrChastMastr Shipmate
    edited August 2024
    KoF wrote: »
    Well also we have critical faculties and an ability to apply life experiences to weigh what other people say. So no, that isn't all we have to go on.

    OK. Applying my own life experiences, including knowing at least one person who is a presently former priest (it’s a long story involving him leaving the Episcopal church for a breakaway “continuingAnglican” church, becoming a priest, and then joining the Roman Catholic Church, which doesn’t acknowledge his ordination—okay, maybe not that long a story after all) who has exactly the same kind of attitude about guns, sees himself as a defender and protector, is definitely paranoid, and quite possibly has a far scarier attitude as when I was googling him a couple of years ago, I found him on the right-wrong social media site Gab, promoting actual Qanon propaganda. So… yeah, it’s not only plausible, if it weren’t for the fact that my former friend is no longer considered a priest, I’d wonder if it was him. When his old blog was readable by the public (it’s friends-only these days), he would post paranoid screeds about the impending collapse of the US and western civilization. The whole “seeing oneself as a protector“ thing is also something that he posted about, with the idea that there are sheep, wolves, and sheepdogs, that the average non-gun person can be considered a sheep, and needs to be protected from the ravening violent wolves they’re naïve about, and the people who choose to be strong and violent and constantly on guard, to protect the foolish sheep, are like sheepdogs. And so on and so on and so on. He used to be (or seemed) a decent sane person once way back when we were in college in the 80s, got into Rush Limbaugh in the 1990s, and … well, we haven’t been friends since the early 2000s. But I have definitely met at least one priest who is into guns, paranoid, and a prepper who expects the black helicopters to come for him someday.
  • I used to work for an Christian youth setup based in a UK rural conference centre, which included an air-pistol/rifle shooting range. Great fun. Perhaps not much relevance to dry-firing as described here, as we were target shooting bits of paper with circles on them, which was rather satisfying when done skillfully. I can't easily get into the mind of why one would fire guns regularly without ammo, with there not being some ulterior reason involving the eventual use of real ammo. Just my opinion, but it sounds worrying, unless it's some sort of stress-release thing. But even then?
  • As @Lamb Chopped noted above, dry firing itself is neutral. If someone is doing it as part of their training for their hobby of target shooting, it's completely normal and not of concern at all.

    If someone is doing it as part of their training so that they are prepared to repel marauding gangs in some dystopian future, there's a lot more to be concerned about, but it's not the dry firing per se that is the concern.
  • While I had been taught dry firing is not good for a weapon, it might be okay, PROVIDED the chamber has been checked and cleared, not once but maybe three times? How many times have I heard of people getting shot while a weapon is being cleaned?
  • As @Lamb Chopped noted above, dry firing itself is neutral. If someone is doing it as part of their training for their hobby of target shooting, it's completely normal and not of concern at all.

    If someone is doing it as part of their training so that they are prepared to repel marauding gangs in some dystopian future, there's a lot more to be concerned about, but it's not the dry firing per se that is the concern.

    If the dystopian future is never going to happen then I don’t see the difference. And if it is going to happen then the target practice seems like a bloody good idea to me!
  • Expecting a dystopian future, specifically the way among the fringe far right it is tied to genuinely paranoid conspiracy theories, is one of the things helping radicalize very dangerous people with guns.
  • I think this was just trolling. Never knew the dude even owned a gun. Never knew the dude was even dry firing the gun. Then at the same time hearing this, he questions him and the guy says it’s because his life is in danger? The the poster who asked, never shows back up. Responds anger times and bounces. Seems like it’s probably just someone trolling.

    But yeah it’s perfectly fine for him to own a gun and to practice using it in hiding dry firing to develop the skills needed to defend themselves.
  • DafydDafyd Hell Host
    Skovand wrote: »
    I think this was just trolling.
    Even in Hell we do not accuse other posters of trolling on these boards.

    Dafyd Hell Host
  • ChastMastrChastMastr Shipmate
    edited September 2024
    I hope @MeesoThorny’s concerns were resolved to their satisfaction…
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