What does the Lord ask of you

As we leave ordinary time and enter lent (borrowed time?), the thought of "what the Lord asks of us" is nearer the surface.
So particularly with regard to verses/passages that have inspired organisations or you (keep in mind privacy) to do stuff for lent or life, or you really where a message is hammered home, let's look at that.
What does the bible say god commands
As a fitting introduction, given how Jesus introduces it and the rest of the thread should flesh it out, we can open with Deuteronomy 6
"4 Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.[a] 5 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.".
I'm hoping the thread will bring out all those components.
(ETA fixed title, DT)
So particularly with regard to verses/passages that have inspired organisations or you (keep in mind privacy) to do stuff for lent or life, or you really where a message is hammered home, let's look at that.
What does the bible say god commands
As a fitting introduction, given how Jesus introduces it and the rest of the thread should flesh it out, we can open with Deuteronomy 6
"4 Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.[a] 5 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.".
I'm hoping the thread will bring out all those components.
(ETA fixed title, DT)
Comments
Matthew 5:22 is probably foremost in my mind this Lent: "But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgement; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire." I am reading a non-Biblical work which has much to say on anger which, God willing, will be helpful also.
“Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!" (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10). As someone, tmi?, who had a crap time at school and lives a life much alone, these spiritual advisers are encouraging me to form friendships and receive help as much as as I can potentially give it to others also.
I don't have much to do with any church calendar, but this is a guiding principle to try and attain.
If I don't it's a sin, but I see sin in archery terms of missing the mark, which most of my arrows do, and it means I should try harder. If I hit the mark every time it means I'm not having a hard enough challenge.
Though I also didn't have a "the answer" in mind.
I do like the wide variety and repetition of "love (human group)" and will post in that.
Seems to me that seeking to know God in Christ is the way to go.
I am speaking to my priest on this. He is a good man, corrects my tendencies toward extremism and things too lofty for me, and other issues, but I feel we are on 2 different planets at times. In some attempt at humility, I always try, try, and place the issue with me*, but at the same point we do seem to have very different mentalities. Which is not necessarily a bad thing. And the parish is good for me.
One priest gave me advice, "Just do good to others. Get on with it. Even when you don't want to. Especially then." I think good advice. But at some point I think God, who I know loves me beyond measure, must be tired of the hypocrisy.
* I realise this can lead to dark places...this is not that; I have left a spiritual Father in the past as that relationship was unhelpful (from my side; I fell in love with him! And he was too advanced for simple me!)
On that extremism I spoke of, I include a lengthy paragraph from it below. St John wrote he suffers from this, so what better Saint could I have?
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I like that advice.
One minister gave me advice that has helped me: when you compel yourself to act in a way that you wish you felt like acting, it's not hypocrisy. I think such times are pleasing to God because they mean we are turning toward him, which is a necessary step before we can become closer to him.
Actually, I see it as an essential aspect of spirituality - being willing to act against our inclination to follow our faith.
This reminds me of something I heard recently. A woman was saying, "I look at a person and think, 'How dare she dress like that in public?' Then I think, 'She can dress however she darn well pleases!' And then I feel like a hypocrite.
Someone else responded, "My mother always used to say, 'Your first response is your conditioned one. Your second response is the one you are claiming as your own and growing into.' There's no hypocrisy in that.
I found the mother's response tremendously life-giving.
I think this is very important. A lot of ills in society come from people settling for their conditioned response. And a lot of needless guilt from other people even having the conditioned one. And finally a lot of nonsense from people claiming never to have the conditioned response, which causes the guilt in the second group.
I do like how the command to "Love your neighbour" appears in so many places and variations. It's mentioned and built up in Leviticus 19:18 (and despite still being in the wilderness* in the same chapter love the foreigner v33), Paul has it as the whole law summarised (Galatians and Romans). Matthew repeats it 3 times. It's obviously important and yet I'm quite bad at it.
*Or at least set then, and just as radical it were written in the monarchies or exile